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Sexual Addiction and
Betrayal Trauma Groups

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Sexual Addiction Recovery Groups

Sexual addiction can feel isolating, secretive, and overwhelming. Many individuals struggle in silence—caught in cycles of pornography use, compulsive masturbation, anonymous encounters, affairs, or other behaviors that conflict with their values and damage relationships. Recovery doesn’t happen alone.

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Our sexual addiction recovery groups provide a structured, confidential space to break shame and build accountability alongside others who truly understand the struggle. In group, members learn to:

  • Identify triggers and underlying emotional drivers

  • Develop healthy coping strategies

  • Build relapse-prevention plans

  • Rebuild integrity and self-trust

  • Strengthen relationship skills and boundaries

  • Process betrayal, secrecy, and consequences in a safe environment

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Guided by a licensed therapist, groups combine psychoeducation, skill-building, and open process work. Members are encouraged—but never forced—to share at a pace that feels safe. Over time, what once felt isolating becomes shared experience, and shame is replaced with connection and growth.

Why Do Sex Addicts Need a Group?

Sexual addiction thrives in secrecy, isolation, and shame. The very nature of compulsive sexual behavior—whether pornography, affairs, anonymous encounters, or chronic masturbation—often creates a double life. Group therapy directly disrupts that isolation, which is one of the most powerful drivers of the cycle.

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Here’s why a sex addiction therapy group can be transformative:

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1. Isolation Fuels Addiction — Connection Weakens It

Addiction convinces you that you’re alone, uniquely flawed, or beyond help. In a therapy group, you quickly discover that others share similar patterns, triggers, and internal struggles. Shame loses power when it is spoken aloud in a safe, structured environment.

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2. Accountability Builds Integrity

Compulsive behaviors often thrive without consistent accountability. A therapist-led group provides structure, check-ins, and honest reflection. Over time, members learn to align their actions with their values instead of being driven by impulse.

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3. You Learn What’s Beneath the Behavior

Sexual addiction is rarely just about sex. It is often tied to unresolved trauma, attachment wounds, anxiety, depression, loneliness, or difficulty regulating emotions. Group therapy helps you uncover the emotional drivers beneath the behavior and develop healthier coping strategies.

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4. Real-Time Feedback

In individual therapy, insight is powerful. In group therapy, you also receive relational feedback. Others can gently challenge denial, minimization, or distorted thinking in ways that are hard to see alone. This accelerates growth.

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5. Breaking the Shame Cycle

Shame often says: “If people really knew me, they’d reject me.”
Group therapy provides a corrective experience—being honest and still accepted. This is deeply healing and reduces the need to numb or escape through compulsive behavior.

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6. Skill Building for Long-Term Recovery

Group sessions typically include:

  • Identifying triggers and high-risk situations

  • Developing relapse-prevention plans

  • Building emotional regulation skills

  • Learning healthy intimacy and attachment

  • Strengthening boundaries and communication

Recovery is not just about stopping behavior—it’s about building a life you don’t need to escape from.

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7. It Speeds Up the Recovery Process

Many individuals find that combining individual therapy with group work accelerates progress. You gain insight in one space and practice honesty, vulnerability, and accountability in another.

Partner Betrayal Trauma Group

Discovering a partner’s sexual addiction, pornography use, affair, or repeated deception can feel devastating. Many partners experience symptoms similar to trauma—shock, intrusive thoughts, anxiety, hypervigilance, sleep disruption, and a deep loss of safety. If you feel confused, angry, heartbroken, or questioning your own reality, you are not “too sensitive.” Betrayal trauma is real.

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Our Partner Betrayal Trauma Recovery Groups offer a safe, therapist-led space specifically for partners who have been impacted by sexual addiction and relational betrayal. This is not couples therapy. It is a place centered on your healing.

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In group, you will:

  • Gain education about betrayal trauma and its impact on the nervous system

  • Learn grounding and stabilization skills to reduce anxiety and overwhelm

  • Process grief, anger, and shattered trust in a supportive environment

  • Rebuild boundaries, clarity, and personal empowerment

  • Connect with others who understand the unique pain of betrayal

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Shame often keeps partners isolated. In group, isolation is replaced with validation and connection. You will not be blamed, minimized, or pressured to make decisions about your relationship before you are ready.

Why Do Betrayed
Partners Need a Group?

Betrayal trauma impacts the nervous system. It can create symptoms similar to PTSD—fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses. In this group, we address both the emotional and physiological impact of betrayal.

 

Through therapist-guided education and experiential tools, you will learn how to:

  • Understand betrayal trauma and why your reactions feel so intense

  • Calm your nervous system during waves of anxiety or panic

  • Manage intrusive thoughts and rumination

  • Identify gaslighting, minimization, and manipulation

  • Establish healthy boundaries without guilt

  • Separate your partner’s choices from your worth

  • Rebuild a sense of internal stability and self-trust

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A Community That Understands

One of the most painful parts of betrayal is isolation. Friends and family often don’t understand the complexity. Some may tell you to “just leave,” while others may minimize the impact of pornography or emotional affairs. In group, you are surrounded by individuals who truly understand the layered grief, anger, confusion, and love that can coexist.

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You will not be blamed.
You will not be pressured to stay or to leave.
You will not be told you are overreacting.

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Instead, you will be supported in making grounded, empowered decisions at your own pace.

What Betrayal Trauma Groups Look Like

Each session includes a blend of:

  • Psychoeducation about trauma and recovery

  • Structured discussion topics

  • Practical coping and grounding exercises

  • Open process time for sharing and support

  • Guided reflection and skill-building

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Members share at a pace that feels safe. Some speak right away; others take time to observe. Both are welcome.

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Our Focus: Stabilization First

Before decisions about reconciliation or separation, healing begins with stabilization. When your nervous system feels regulated and you regain clarity, you are far better equipped to determine what is healthiest for you and your family.

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Recovery from betrayal is not linear. There are waves—moments of strength and moments of deep grief. This group provides consistent support through those waves.

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You deserve safety.
You deserve truth.
You deserve healing that centers you.

Group Prices:

$50 per group

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Insurance Accepted:

Blue Cross Blue Shield

Optum

United Health Care

You don’t have to keep living in secrecy. You don’t have to keep carrying betrayal alone.
309-323-0207
Cami@CamiLerminezLLC.com

2221 52nd Avenue,

Moline, IL 61265

Cami@CamiLerminezLLC.com

Tel: 309-323-0207

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Mon, Wed, Fri: 8am - 3pm

​​Saturday: By Appt. Only

​Sunday: Closed

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